Getting 'it' with no strings :o)
Do girls usually say that sort of thing?
Firstly a big thankyou to Eve & Adam, well Eve put up with it all day yesterday & then Adam helped calm me down in my little afternoon panic attack. Yes, that's right, I'm a Drama Queen - who needs soap operas with me in their lives? :)
The thing was I was trying to figure out, was how to talk to the boy re: it just been a casual thing, with out looking like a complete reject.
We (the boy & I) were supposed to go out last night but due to the whole trains been shut down thing, traffic was appalling & he didn't get to my place till about 9pm. He was telling me how he'd seen one of his ex's & she was telling him about her new boyfriend etc & I blurted out "so are you cool with us just been a casual thing then" & he was like "yep", it was all rather painless. It's turns out it's what he thought all along. It makes me feel heaps better to know that he didn't think I was leading him on too.
We talked about it a little & I found it a bit hard to articulate to start with, but all in all, now it's out in the open & it's like a huge weight's been lifted off my shoulders. We assertained that neither of us feels used so it's all good. Now I just have to worry about myself now & not him too. He said that he wasn't actually seeing anyone else at the moment & I was like you know it's cool if you want to. Then we got in to a discussion on when it is that the rules change & how people presume things & how it's all really interesting...
Situation: I have a friend who's cool to hang out with that I just happen to sleep with :o) and both of us are happy with that.
Oh, Four times: three last night, once this morning :o) I'm a very tired but happy girl! I was only a little late for work, but the boss wasn't here so it doesn't count cause no one knows!
Firstly a big thankyou to Eve & Adam, well Eve put up with it all day yesterday & then Adam helped calm me down in my little afternoon panic attack. Yes, that's right, I'm a Drama Queen - who needs soap operas with me in their lives? :)
The thing was I was trying to figure out, was how to talk to the boy re: it just been a casual thing, with out looking like a complete reject.
We (the boy & I) were supposed to go out last night but due to the whole trains been shut down thing, traffic was appalling & he didn't get to my place till about 9pm. He was telling me how he'd seen one of his ex's & she was telling him about her new boyfriend etc & I blurted out "so are you cool with us just been a casual thing then" & he was like "yep", it was all rather painless. It's turns out it's what he thought all along. It makes me feel heaps better to know that he didn't think I was leading him on too.
We talked about it a little & I found it a bit hard to articulate to start with, but all in all, now it's out in the open & it's like a huge weight's been lifted off my shoulders. We assertained that neither of us feels used so it's all good. Now I just have to worry about myself now & not him too. He said that he wasn't actually seeing anyone else at the moment & I was like you know it's cool if you want to. Then we got in to a discussion on when it is that the rules change & how people presume things & how it's all really interesting...
Situation: I have a friend who's cool to hang out with that I just happen to sleep with :o) and both of us are happy with that.
Oh, Four times: three last night, once this morning :o) I'm a very tired but happy girl! I was only a little late for work, but the boss wasn't here so it doesn't count cause no one knows!
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